Why You're Still Exhausted After Work (And How to Fix It)
- Deb Goodge

- Nov 9
- 3 min read
You finish your workday completely drained. You sit in the car outside your house for five minutes just to gather yourself before walking in. You tell yourself you should go for a walk, move your body, or prep something healthy for dinner.

But instead, you collapse on the couch, scroll your phone, and feel quietly frustrated with yourself.
Here's the truth: You're not lazy. You're not unmotivated. Your body is trying to run on fumes, and your current habits aren't refueling it properly.
You're Running a High-Performance Life on Empty
Most high-achieving women I work with are running their lives like a well-oiled machine.
They're organized, efficient, and capable of handling enormous responsibilities. But they're treating their bodies like they're supposed to just "keep up" without proper fuel, movement, or recovery.
The real issue? You're probably stuck in a cycle that's actually draining your energy instead of building it.
The Low-Energy Loop That's Keeping You Stuck
Here's what I see happening with the accomplished women who come to me feeling completely wiped out:
Sporadic, intense workouts that leave you more tired. You push through a brutal workout when you have time, then feel too exhausted to do anything else for days.
Skipping meals or eating reactively throughout the day. You grab whatever's convenient, leading to blood sugar crashes that leave you feeling sluggish.
Never truly resting (just collapsing). There's a difference between intentional recovery and simply falling apart at the end of the day.
Constant mental multitasking. Your brain never gets a break, which is just as draining as physical activity.
Feeling guilty for wanting time for yourself. This guilt creates stress, which actually depletes your energy further.
All of this creates a low-energy loop. Even though you're capable of incredible things, your tank feels empty by 6 PM every single day.
What You Actually Need: An Energy System That Works With Your Life
What you need isn't more willpower or discipline. You need an approach that actually gives you energy back instead of constantly demanding it.
This means building habits around three key pillars:
Movement that energizes, not exhausts. Shorter, strength-based workouts that build your capacity without leaving you drained.
Fuel that stabilizes your energy. A strategic approach to eating that keeps your blood sugar steady throughout the day.
Real recovery and boundaries. Learning to truly rest without guilt, so your body can actually repair and recharge.
The Transformation That's Possible
When you get this right, everything changes. You stop dragging through your afternoons.
You have energy to be present with your family AND still do something meaningful for yourself. You don't need to "crash" at the end of the day because your body is finally being properly supported.
This is exactly what I help women achieve through my REVIVE Method. It's a 12-week program specifically designed for busy women over 40 who want to build strength and energy without burning out.
Inside REVIVE, you get:
Short, focused strength-based workouts that build stamina without burnout
A fueling strategy designed to keep your blood sugar stable and energy steady
Mindset tools to release the guilt around slowing down
Structure that helps you stay consistent, even when life gets busy
Your Next Step
If you're tired of being tired, if you want to feel strong and clear again, and if you want a routine that actually makes you better at everything you already do, there's a solution.
It's not about forcing more discipline into your life. It's about creating an energy system that finally works with your reality, not against it.
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